2 Samuel 13:1-22

Amnon and Tamar

1Now aAbsalom, David’s son, had a beautiful sister, whose name was bTamar. And after a time Amnon, David’s son, loved her. 2And Amnon was so tormented that he made himself ill because of his sister Tamar, for she was a virgin, and it seemed impossible to Amnon to do anything to her. 3But Amnon had a friend, whose name was Jonadab, the son of cShimeah, David’s brother. And Jonadab was a very crafty man. 4And he said to him, “O son of the king, why are you so haggard morning after morning? Will you not tell me?” Amnon said to him, “I love Tamar, my brother Absalom’s sister.” 5Jonadab said to him, “Lie down on your bed and pretend to be ill. And when your father comes to see you, say to him, ‘Let my sister Tamar come and give me bread to eat, and prepare the food in my sight, that I may see it and eat it from her hand.’” 6So Amnon lay down and pretended to be ill. And when the king came to see him, Amnon said to the king, “Please let my sister Tamar come and dmake a couple of cakes in my sight, that I may eat from her hand.”

7Then David sent home to Tamar, saying, “Go to your brother Amnon’s house and prepare food for him.” 8So Tamar went to her brother Amnon’s house, where he was lying down. And she took dough and kneaded it and made cakes in his sight and baked the cakes. 9And she took the pan and emptied it out before him, but he refused to eat. And Amnon said, eSend out everyone from me.” So everyone went out from him. 10Then Amnon said to Tamar, “Bring the food into the chamber, that I may eat from your hand.” And Tamar took the cakes she had made and brought them into the chamber to Amnon her brother. 11But when she brought them near him to eat, he took hold of her and said to her, “Come, lie with me, my sister.” 12She answered him, “No, my brother, do not violate
Or humiliate; also verses 14, 22, 32
me, for gsuch a thing is not done in Israel; do not do this houtrageous thing.
13As for me, where could I carry my shame? And as for you, you would be as one of ithe outrageous fools in Israel. Now therefore, please speak to the king, for he will not withhold me from you.” 14But he would not listen to her, and being stronger than she, he violated her and lay with her.

15Then Amnon hated her with very great hatred, so that the hatred with which he hated her was greater than the love with which he had loved her. And Amnon said to her, “Get up! Go!” 16But she said to him, “No, my brother, for this wrong in sending me away is greater than the other that you did to me.”
Compare Septuagint, Vulgate; the meaning of the Hebrew is uncertain
But he would not listen to her.
17He called the young man who served him and said, “Put this woman out of my presence and bolt the door after her.” 18Now she was wearing ka long robe
Or  a robe of many colors (compare Genesis 37:3); also verse 19
with sleeves, for thus were the virgin daughters of the king dressed. So his servant put her out and bolted the door after her.
19And Tamar mput ashes on her head and ntore the long robe that she wore. And oshe laid her hand on her head and went away, crying aloud as she went.

20And her brother Absalom said to her, “Has Amnon your brother been with you? Now hold your peace, my sister. He is your brother; do not take this to heart.” So Tamar lived, a desolate woman, in her brother Absalom’s house. 21When King David heard of all these things, he was very angry.
Dead Sea Scroll, Septuagint add But he would not punish his son Amnon, because he loved him, since he was his firstborn
22But Absalom spoke to Amnon qneither good nor bad, for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had violated his sister Tamar.

Proverbs 10:1

The Proverbs of Solomon

1 rThe proverbs of Solomon.

sA wise son makes a glad father,
tbut a foolish son is a sorrow to his mother.

Proverbs 15:20

20 uA wise son makes a glad father,
but a foolish man despises his mother.

Proverbs 19:13

13 vA foolish son is ruin to his father,
and wa wife’s quarreling is xa continual dripping of rain.

Ecclesiastes 2:18-19

The Vanity of Toil

18I hated yall my toil in which I toil under the sun, seeing that I must zleave it to the man who will come after me, 19and who knows whether he will be wise or a fool? Yet he will be master of all for which I toiled and used my wisdom under the sun. This also is vanity.
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