2 Samuel 19:6-7

6because you love those who hate you and hate those who love you. For you have made it clear today that commanders and servants are nothing to you, for today I know that if Absalom were alive and all of us were dead today, then you would be pleased. 7Now therefore arise, go out and speak akindly to your servants, for I swear by the Lord, if you do not go, not a man will stay with you this night, and this will be worse for you than all the evil that has come upon you from your youth until now.”

2 Samuel 19:13

13And say to Amasa, bβ€˜Are you not my bone and my flesh? cGod do so to me and more also, if you are not dcommander of my army from now on in place of Joab.’”
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