Gen 38:14, 2Sa 14:2, 5 | ESV | STEP | she took off her widow’s garments and covered herself with a veil , wrapping herself up, and sat at the entrance to Enaim , which is on the road to Timnah . For she saw that Shelah was grown up , and she had not been given to him in marriage .

Genesis 38:14

14 she took off her widow’s garments ^aand covered herself with a veil, wrapping herself up, and sat at the entrance to ^bEnaim, which is on the road to Timnah. For she saw that Shelah was grown up, ^cand she had not been given to him in marriage.

2 Samuel 14:2

2 And Joab sent to ^dTekoa and brought from there a wise woman and said to her, “Pretend to be a mourner and put on mourning garments. ^eDo not anoint yourself with oil, but behave like a woman who has been mourning many days for the dead.

2 Samuel 14:5

5 And the king said to her, “What is your trouble?” She answered, ^f“Alas, I am a widow; my husband is dead.