Judg 12:1-6, 2Sa 19:41-43, 1Ki 12:14, 16, 2Ki 14:8-10, Pro 17:14 | ESV | STEP | The men of Ephraim were called to arms , and they crossed to Zaphon and said to Jephthah , Why did you cross over to fight against the Ammonites and did not call us to go with you? We will burn your house over you with fire .

1 ^aThe men of Ephraim were called to arms, and they crossed to Zaphon and said to Jephthah, “Why did you cross over to fight against the Ammonites and did not call us to go with you? We will burn your house over you with fire.” 2 And Jephthah said to them, “I and my people had a great dispute with the Ammonites, and when I called you, you did not save me from their hand. 3 And when I saw that you would not save me, ^bI took my life in my hand and crossed over against the Ammonites, and the Lord gave them into my hand. Why then have you come up to me this day to fight against me?” 4 Then Jephthah gathered all the men of Gilead and fought with Ephraim. And the men of Gilead struck Ephraim, because they said, ^c“You are fugitives of Ephraim, you Gileadites, in the midst of Ephraim and Manasseh.” 5 And the Gileadites captured ^dthe fords of the Jordan against the Ephraimites. And when any of the fugitives of Ephraim said, “Let me go over,” the men of Gilead said to him, “Are you an Ephraimite?” When he said, “No,” 6 they said to him, “Then say Shibboleth,” and he said, “Sibboleth,” for he could not pronounce it right. Then they seized him and slaughtered him at ^ethe fords of the Jordan. At that time 42,000 of the Ephraimites fell.

2 Samuel 19:41-43

41 Then all the men of Israel came to the king and said to the king, “Why have our brothers the men of Judah stolen you away and ^fbrought the king and his household over the Jordan, and all David’s men with him?” 42 All the men of Judah answered the men of Israel, “Because the king is ^gour close relative. Why then are you angry over this matter? Have we eaten at all at the king’s expense? Or has he given us any gift?” 43 And the men of Israel answered the men of Judah, “We have ^hten shares in the king, and in David also we have more than you. Why then did you despise us? Were we not the first to speak of bringing back our king?” ⁱBut the words of the men of Judah were fiercer than the words of the men of Israel.

1 Kings 12:14

14 he spoke to them according to the counsel of the young men, saying, ^j“My father made your yoke heavy, but I will add to your yoke. My father disciplined you with whips, but I will discipline you with scorpions.”

1 Kings 12:16

The Kingdom Divided

16 And when all Israel saw that the king did not listen to them, the people answered the king, “What portion do we have in David? We have no inheritance in the son of Jesse. ^kTo your tents, O Israel! Look now to your own house, David.” So Israel went to their tents.

2 Kings 14:8-10

8 ^lThen Amaziah sent messengers to Jehoash ^{▼▼ Jehoash is an alternate spelling of Joash (son of Jehoahaz) as in 13:9, 12–14; also verses 9, 11–16} the son of Jehoahaz, son of Jehu, king of Israel, saying, “Come, ⁿlet us look one another in the face.” 9 And Jehoash king of Israel sent word to Amaziah king of Judah, ^o“A thistle on Lebanon sent to a cedar on Lebanon, saying, ‘Give your daughter to my son for a wife,’ and a wild beast of Lebanon passed by and trampled down the thistle. 10 You have indeed ^pstruck down Edom, ^qand your heart has lifted you up. Be content with your glory, and stay at home, for why should you provoke trouble so that you fall, you and Judah with you?”

Proverbs 17:14

14 The beginning of strife is like letting out water,
so ^rquit before the quarrel breaks out.