‏ Hebrews 12:5-6

God Deals With Sons

Heb 12:5. The writer encourages the Hebrews that they should not give up too easily. For all opposition, resistance and affliction they were enduring, they had an example in the Lord Jesus. By looking at Him they will be able to persevere. But they also have forgotten something, namely a certain exhortation. That was because they had become dull of hearing (Heb 5:11-12).

The point is, that there was external pressure and that they had become forgetful. They had forgotten something that was written in the Scripture and what was meant for them. In the quoted text Solomon is addressing his son, but here it is said that the exhortation is addressed to them, the Hebrew believers. This is an important starting point if you read the Scripture. Then you are to consider that the voice of God addresses you. Because the Hebrews had forgotten that, they dealt wrongly with the difficulties that they endured on their path of faith.

Here you learn that when you have to endure trials, because of being faithful, God uses those trials to discipline you. With discipline you may easily think that it happens because there is something wrong and that you should be punished or disciplined for that. That may be the case sometimes, but is not necessarily always so. Here discipline is not corrective but preventative, to prevent deviation. Discipline is also educative here with the purpose that the believer will more and more look like God. He wants you to partake of His holiness (Heb 12:10). With the Lord Jesus this discipline was not necessary. He always perfectly partook of the holiness of God, because He Himself was the holy God.

Just like you’re fixing your eyes on the Lord Jesus on the path of faith, in that way your eyes are fixed on the Father if it concerns discipline. He doesn’t use a whip to discipline you, but the pruning knife (Jn 15:1-2). He disciplines us (see Job in the book of Job), but He does that as a loving Father. It gives a lot of rest if you consider that what happens to you, is not caused by people, but that it comes from the hand of a loving Father. That is also what the writer wants to tell the Hebrews. He wants them to realize that they are addressed as “sons”. In chapter 2 they are also addressed like that, as sons who are on the way to the glory (Heb 2:10). Discipline or education is the proof of sonship.

Now, you may respond in two ways to discipline of your heavenly Father. Solomon said that in his wisdom to his son (Pro 3:11). On the one hand you may ignore the discipline of the Lord. That means that you act as if the difficulties and trials do not bother you. You remain indifferently and stoically under it. They have no special meaning for you. You may also consider them as situations that can happen to anyone. In itself, it surely is; but you are not anyone. You are someone with whom God deals with as a son. God is interested in you and educates you. Therefore He has His purpose with the things that happen to you. And that’s why you certainly cannot ignore that.

On the other hand you do not need to take them that heavily that it presses you totally down. It is not that God uses discipline to pour out His full wrath over you. You may experience it like that, but that is surely not true. No, you may know that God acts out of love.

Heb 12:6. Discipline is a proof of His love and is certainly not meant to discourage you. When discipline serves as punishment, then that means that God wants to convince you of something that is wrong, so that you may remove the wrong things out of your life. That is not necessarily something that you do wrong, but something that can cause you to do that. After all, some Hebrews were in danger to leave the path of faith.

As it is said, discipline doesn’t always mean that one should be punished for something. If you see discipline like that, whether it concerns you or others, you will draw the wrong conclusion. The outward, physical circumstances are not always the result of the condition of the soul. The friends of Job drew that wrong conclusion. They saw what happened to Job and were convinced that he had committed a great sin. But God punished them because of their remarks on this. With Gaius you see how discipline happens regarding the body, while the soul prospers (3Jn 1:2).

That discipline can hurt, is indicated by the word “scourges”. Hereby you may think of the thorn in the flesh Paul had (2Cor 12:7). That thorn was painful in the exertion of his ministry. It made him despicable – and this he endured for the sake of the Lord –, but that thorn also kept his flesh in control. This is how God deals with “every son whom He receives”. In the word ‘receive’ joy is sounding through. The word means ‘acknowledge with joy’.

A real son is someone in whom his father is well pleased (cf. Mt 3:17). In this way the Father desires to have us as sons, according to the good pleasure of His will (Eph 1:5). We are sons. God has given us this place on the basis of the work of His Son. He also desires that we live up to this in practice. To achieve this He disciplines us, for discipline serves to remove things that are not pleasing to Him out of our lives, so that we may be more pleasing to Him.

Heb 12:7-8. Therefore, in all discipline you should see the loving interference of God, Who deals with you as with a son. Be sure that this happens to every son. Sometimes it is quite visible, but even if certain believers visibly prosper, they surely partake of discipline, although it is not seen at first glance. “All”, those are all believers, are partakers of it. Every son is disciplined by his father. God also dealt with Israel, His firstborn son, like that (Exo 4:22; Hos 11:1; Deu 7:8; Deu 8:5).

If the Hebrews are not partakers of discipline, they should have to worry about that instead of worrying about the discipline they were experiencing at that moment. If they were not partakers, it would mean that God was not interested in them and that He would have dealt with them as illegitimates. Illegitimates are not real sons. Therefore, if they would have missed discipline, it would mean that they were Christians in name or fake sons. Now they were really disciplined, it was proof that God had received them as sons.

Heb 12:9. With the word “furthermore” the writer adds a comparison between God and an earthly father. In this comparison it becomes clear that God is so much more than an earthly father. Our fathers after the flesh, “earthly fathers”, also corrected us. That belongs to the education. Because of their correction we respected them. How much more do we have respect to our heavenly, spiritual, Father. That Father is the origin of every spiritual life (Num 16:22; Num 27:16; Ecc 12:7).

Just like you as a child had to, or perhaps still have to, subject to the disciplining hand of your earthly father, in that way you should also subject yourself to the discipline of God. If you subject yourself to that, you will “live”! The point is not that you should learn to deal with the difficulties of life, but how you can enjoy the true life. Only then you really live the way God has purposed.

Heb 12:10. Now, your earthly father is fallible, but God is not. God never makes mistakes. The correction of your earthly father is also limited to “a short time”, which are the days of your youth, while God corrects you through your whole life. Ultimately His discipline is never meaningless, but is always for your benefit, for your improvement and advantage. His ultimate purpose with His discipline is that you “may share His holiness”.

Your spiritual well-being depends on that. This involves more than just being sanctified, or set apart, in terms of your position (Heb 10:10). It implies that you separate yourself from evil, just as God is separate from it and that you learn to be totally dedicated to God in everything. He doesn’t demand holiness here, but He works that. Discipline is His means for that. That enables you to have full joy in God.

Heb 12:11. The first response to discipline is not joy. If discipline were to give joy, it would miss its effect. All positive aspects of discipline that the writer has demonstrated in the previous verses do not change the fact that discipline itself is not something that makes you happy. It is not pleasant. If that would be the case, it would not mean discipline. On the contrary, the unpleasing thing about it should teach us to change our walk in such a way that we don’t have to be disciplined anymore. Therefore the discipline is meant for “the moment”. When discipline has achieved its goal, then there is a reason to be joyful. Then it is profitable.

By discipline you are “trained”, which means that you are taught how to deal with it. By training you learn how to control something. If you are willing to accept discipline in that way, if you can handle it like that, then it will bring you closer to God. The result is that you will enjoy more of the peace and you will grow in bringing righteousness into practice.

The “peaceful fruit of righteousness” will soon be reality to Israel in the millennial kingdom of peace, after they have gone through the sufferings of the great tribulation. God wants to work that fruit now already through His education in your life (Jn 15:2; 8).

Now read Hebrews 12:5-11 again.

Reflection: What chastening do you recognize in your life as God’s dealings with you to enable you to partake of His holiness?

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