‏ Proverbs 29:11

Self-Control in Speech

This section teaches about the importance of controlling what we say. The commentary contrasts the foolish person, who speaks without thinking, with the wise person, who knows when to speak and when to keep silent. It shows that self-control in speech is a sign of wisdom.

v. 11: The verse says, A fool utters all his mind . This means a foolish person says everything he thinks. He does not keep secrets and always speaks his mind right away. When something comes to his thoughts, he speaks it out immediately, even if it is not important or could hurt someone. He does not stop to think or wait for the right time. On the other hand, a wise man keeps it in till afterwards . A wise person takes his time before speaking. He might save his thoughts for a better time or pause to listen and think first. He does not say everything at once, but waits to see if his words are needed or helpful. Sometimes, it is wise to be silent and wait, because good communication is not just about talking, but also about knowing when to be quiet and listen.

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